How Do You Keep Yourself Motivated?
When No One Else Believes In You, What Should You Do?
I have two responses for you: one is politically correct, and the other is the fucking truth.
Which one you want to hear is up to you. Actually, I'll offer you both. Kindly is the politically correct response.
You just have to hustle, put your head down, and know what your goal is and where you're headed.
These are common occurrences. Here's the reality. You're not motivated enough if you need someone to motivate you.
What I've noticed is that high-performing individuals are self-motivated.
A large number of people are looking for their family. So, you know, they use that as an excuse.
My wife and husband are not on my side.
My parents aren't on my side.
My children do not believe in me.
Or my pals aren't on my side.
What's more, guess what? Expect no help from them.
At the peak, the air is thin. You must also learn how to be alone without feeling lonely.
That's just the way things go.
That's the biggest thing that keeps most people back when it comes to being more successful.
It's not that they don't know how, or that they don't know what to do, or that they don't have a company idea; it's that they can't operate on their own, that they can't self-motivate while also not needing permission from others.
That is what they desire.
Why don't you realise I'm doing this for you?
Why aren't you guys behind me?
What gives that my family isn't behind me?
What gives that they don't get it?
I don't understand; I want to make more money, be more successful, and improve their lives.
What gives that they don't get it?
What's more, the majority of the time, they'll never comprehend.
You're hoping for something that isn't going to happen.
That is what is preventing you from achieving your goals.
You're hoping that they'll grant you permission.
Yes, go ahead and do it; they'll cheer you up.
No. The question isn't why they don't support you; it's why they don't support you.
It's fairly straightforward. It's a piece of cake. This is exactly how I go through it in my own life.
First and foremost, they do not comprehend. Because the majority of us grew up in a dysfunctional educational system.
It teaches you how to behave in a certain way.
Attend school, achieve good grades, and continue on this road.
Acquire a degree, get a job, and keep working until you're 65 years old.
Get married, start a family, and take out a large mortgage.
That is your existence.
Anything that deviates from that, anything that does not follow the established route, is foolish.
That's a bad idea.
That is incorrect.
This is what you should do instead of that.
So the moment you decide to choose a new road, the people around you, including your loved ones, think you're crazy.
Why can't you just do what everyone else does and be normal?
Just make a decision.
Don't take any chances.
Take precautions.
Find a work that is both safe and secure.
And the more you stray from the established path, the greater the distance between you and them appears to be.
They don't want to lose you.
They're frightened that if you lose, you'll abandon them.
That's why you're not receiving any assistance.
Do you honestly believe your friends, all of your friends, want you to be a mega-success?
To live the life of their dreams?
To travel, to live in that lovely house, to drive that automobile they could never afford?
Do you honestly believe they want you to be that successful while they're struggling to make ends meet?
NO, NO, NO
They might say things like, "Oh yes, we're rooting for you," "Congratulations, man," and "Good for you."
Jealousy, envy, and the lower self lurk beneath the surface.
It's in our nature. So, don't even expect it, is what I'm saying.
You're squandering your time here.
You do what you believe to be right, not what you think is right.
You choose your own course to take.
They could notice it, they might not notice it, and I don't expect them to notice it.
This isn't their life; it's mine. I do what I know I need to do, therefore you're not going to be successful if you need someone to motivate you.
I, Sharjeel Anees, don't require anyone's motivation.
I don't even need others to understand what I'm saying.
I know who I am and how to motivate myself.
How come they don't support me, how can I be motivated if you're waiting for someone to motivate you?
You can't even force yourself to get out of bed and do what it takes to be successful, and you want to be successful?
Do you want to outperform everyone else?
You want to hone that skill, right?
It's not going to work. You must be self-disciplined. Take a look at any industry, including sports, entertainment, and business.
You don't need to motivate someone who has reached brilliance because they demand more from themselves than anyone else could.
No one could put more pressure on me than I could.
Do you set higher standards for yourself than you would for others?
So don't put it off any longer. Do it, and do it now.
I ’m extremely thankful and grateful.